EP. 806

06/05/19

Brendon Burchard

BE THE CAPTAIN OF YOUR SHIP.

How to Become a Full Time Influencer, Part 2

Thomas Paine said, โ€œThe harder the conflict, the more glorious the triumph. What we obtain too cheap, we esteem too lightly.โ€ 

Iโ€™ve often found that the best things in life donโ€™t come easily. The hard work, the struggle, the dedication that it takes โ€” these are the things that make the end result so rewarding. As an influencer, the ultimate goal should be to discover who you are in the process of taking your message out into the world.

Welcome to this episode. It’s part two of the much-anticipated interview series with Brendon Burchard. If you missed the first part, I strongly recommend catching up on part one before you dive into this episode. In the second part of my conversation with Brendon, we talk about game-changing ways to build a business, why you must honor the struggle in order to scale, the importance of finding reverence for life and the unexpected ways it can show up, and the power of self-doubt and what it signals for you. Get ready โ€” this is going to be an incredible ride. 

Who Is Brendon Burchard? 

Brendon Burchard is a 3-time New York Times bestselling author and one of the most-watched, quoted, and followed personal development trainers in history. SUCCESS Magazine and O, Oprahโ€™s magazine, have both named him one of the most influential leaders in personal growth and achievement.  Forbes named him the worldโ€™s leading high-performance coach, and Larry King named him the worldโ€™s top motivational trainer.

Brendon is a recipient of the Maharishi Award, a Senior Research Lead at the High Performance Institute, an investor and owner in multiple successful companies, and a member of Oprahโ€™s Super Soul 100. He rarely does media interviews โ€” he prefers reading, researching, filming, teaching online, and creating life-affirming content over cocktail parties and press junkets.

Iโ€™m so grateful to Brendon for participating in The School of Greatness for a second time. We recorded our first conversation together on Episode 538: High Performance Habits. I was apprehensive about meeting Brendon at the time, but since then, weโ€™ve grown into great friends, and I have the ultimate respect for his work. He has many valuable lessons to share about building a business that I canโ€™t wait for you to hear. Letโ€™s dive in. 

The Importance of Building a Business

Before I met Brendon, Iโ€™d seen his videos all over Facebook, heard his name in big circles, and seen his bestselling books at the top of the charts. Brendon has figured out how to build a very successful business while serving a higher purpose. Itโ€™s something that influencers often struggle with when theyโ€™re just starting out. 

โ€œ[Lots of influencers say to me], โ€˜I don’t want to charge people. I don’t want to be a jerk. I don’t want to do business.โ€™ [My response is that] you’re doing yourself a disservice. If you don’t build a business โ€” often people don’t pay attention unless they pay. You want to create a real transformation in people’s lives. [To do that], they have to invest something. They have to give something.โ€ – Brendon Burchard

Brendon has found that every thought leader and top influencer in the world has learned the value of their message. Monetizing that message and building a business signals to people that your mission, your service, and your word is worth something. 

Now, just because you have something to say doesnโ€™t mean you have the business training to back it up. Creating a business is not something that comes naturally to everyone. You are going to need to find ways to learn how to create a business model that works for you. You’re going to need to find great people on your team to support you, because youโ€™re not going to be able to do all the work yourself. Itโ€™s okay to hire someone to help โ€“ just start somewhere. 

โ€œI’ve been blessed to be in the business as a mentor for people for 16 years. The biggest names have come to me [for advice], especially this last decade. None of them ever said, โ€˜I wish I hadn’t worked on building my business earlier.โ€™ They always say, โ€˜Oh, you know what? I should have focused on the business earlier.โ€™โ€ – Brendon Burchard

Brendon tells people that creating a business model around your message will inevitably support you to pursue your art and freedom. In the influencer industry, there are so many different ways to create a business because there are so many different things to sell. 

โ€œMake sure you get something digital running in the background selling all the time. You have to have digital sales and subscriptions these days. That could be a course. My number one go-to for most people is to make sure you have a subscription program, [where] people give you money every single month for access to your content library or to new content. โ€ฆ [With] digital sales, [you could offer]  anything from online courses to charging people for access to libraries, to webinars, to coaching online coaching, live or virtual. You have the ability to do seminars, workshops, events, retreats, books, [and] PDFs.โ€ – Brendon Burchard

The opportunity to sell your message comes in many different formats, and success, according to Brendon, lies in figuring out which format works best for you. 

โ€œIt’s about figuring out what [content] you love to create and which [content] works for your model and your message. โ€ฆ We were talking about Tony earlier, Tony Robbins. He doesn’t have much of a membership program because his method, his passion is being on stage. You also have to understand everyone’s got a different passion or a different way of letting their methods shine.โ€ – Brendon Burchard

The bottom line: the most important elements to figure out are your message, your method, and your monetization. Knowing who you are is a core component of those three things. When you know who you are, the rest will follow.

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The Mayhem of Being an Influencer

One thing Brendon warns is that starting a business as an influencer comes with a lot of mess and mayhem. Mayhem comes at you from a few different angles, too.

โ€œThere will be relationship mayhem when you commit to your dreams. That’s what the universe sets up to test if you want it or not.โ€ – Brendon Burchard

In your personal relationships, there may be friends and family members who doubt that what youโ€™re doing is a viable career. In addition to self-doubt (internal mayhem), chaos in your relationships can throw you off-course. 

โ€œ[Itโ€™s] the internal mayhem of the self-doubt โ€” the fear, the frustration, the lack of motivation and discipline that just upsets us, [those are things] we all have. But the real mayhem that really messes up people in the influencer space is the relationships. [People who] don’t get you. Your spouse [who] doesn’t support you. You have a partner who steals. You have somebody who takes advantage of you. All of a sudden, now everyone wants something from you. When everyone wants something from you, there’s going to be some relationship mayhem.โ€ – Brendon Burchard

Taking control of the internal self-doubt is all about working through your own mindset and habits, something we talk about a lot on The School of Greatness. Self-doubt is both a blessing and a curse. 

โ€œSelf-doubt is one of the first signals that you deeply want to grow. Most people start with self-doubt being a bad thing. โ€ฆThe difference [between] successful people and unsuccessful people [is] the way they deal with the doubt. If you’re struggling and you’re always unsuccessful, it’s because self-doubt is stopping you. Successful people have the same doubt, but they’re exploring it.โ€ – Brendon Burchard

I love the way Brendon reframes self-doubt into a gift. Itโ€™s all about leaning into the unknown, working through that fear, all while taking care of your mental health. Donโ€™t ignore the importance of self-care. Dial into how you think of yourself, and take care of your health and even how you reward your own hard work. The more you can focus on minimizing that internal mayhem, the less important any of those negative external relationships seem. Mindset โ€” and mentors โ€” can solve a lot of problems. 

Finding Meaning as an Influencer

I wanted to shift for a moment to another topic that we discuss frequently on The School of Greatness โ€“โ€“ what it means for an influencer to find meaning. What does โ€œmeaningโ€ mean for an influencer? How can an influencer find their purpose?

โ€œI think [the thing] often people get wrong as influencers, [is that] they’re waiting for the day to come when they can finally have satisfaction and fulfillment from their effort. [They think,] โ€˜When I get to a million followers and I make a million dollars, then I can like myself, feel good about myself, enjoy the day, rest peacefully.โ€™ [To me], if you can’t teach yourself to rest peacefully, you’re screwed.โ€ – Brendon Burchard

Materialistic or monetary rewards are never as gratifying as we think they will be. Lifeโ€™s popularity contest wonโ€™t make you happy either. Instead, Brendon looks for satisfaction on the calendar โ€” not the to-do list. 

โ€œReverence for life shows up in how you felt that day. Reverence for life shows up in your time management. I tell people all the time, โ€˜Look at all these days you wasted. โ€ฆ Are you actually using your days wisely? Because if time is short, if life is short, then you better be using it.โ€™โ€ – Brendon Burchard

Practicing gratitude is a big part of mental health and feeling centered, but I also like the idea of taking each day and making the most of your time. Itโ€™s easy to get distracted by things we โ€œhaveโ€ to do or by social media or Netflix. Brendon says he was constantly distracted and unable to live in the moment. Over his career, heโ€™s learned to practice mindfulness, be more aware, meditate, and breathe. 

โ€œThe number one problem we really have is people don’t feel the day. They don’t feel their relationships. So they’re looking for this feeling, and they’re lacking life. Feel it. You got to feel it, right?โ€ – Brendon Burchard

When you can appreciate the time you have, use it wisely, share it with the people you care about, and stop avoiding the messy mayhem, thatโ€™s when youโ€™ll begin to find fulfillment. 

Why You Should Listen to This Brendon Burchard Podcast Episode Right Nowโ€ฆ

Brendon had so much wisdom to share โ€” I highly recommend listening to both parts of our incredible interview. It’s been an amazing last couple of years as Iโ€™ve built a friendship with Brendon and seen how much he does to serve others. Itโ€™s really inspiring. 

I want to leave you with Brendonโ€™s definition of greatness: 

โ€œI think the older I get, the more my definition of greatness is entirely tied to the concept of service. โ€ฆ I’ve always believed that, but I think it is the ability to demand of yourself and command your mind and your body and your day to do something that’s meaningful for other people โ€” that’s what’s great. You can be good just doing self-care for yourself, but you become great when you do things for other people.โ€ – Brendon Burchard

If you want to hear more from Brendon, check out his podcast, The Brendon Show on Apple Podcasts and follow him on YouTube, Instagram, and Facebook. Brendonโ€™s always putting on amazing events and masterminds, so definitely check out his website for the latest news. 

Friends, join me on Episode 806 to learn about building a business, embracing self-doubt, and mastering mayhem with Brendon Burchard! It’ll change your life! 

To Greatness,

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Some Questions I Ask:

  • What does โ€œmayhemโ€ mean? (1:07:00)
  • How do influencers find โ€œmeaning?โ€ (1:14:00)
  • Why do influencers experience self-doubt? (1:20:30)
  • When do you feel the most loved? (1:23:00)

In this episode, you will learn:

  • Why you need to care about business and building a brand (50:00)
  • The three ways to make money without working as hard (55:00)
  • The four aspirations everyone has (1:03:00)
  • The moment that Brendon almost gave up (1:30:00)
  • How to be more present (1:36:00)
  • Plus much more…
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